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Kayla ( kelli's bff since 2001 )  
phoenix az  
Jennifer, u were like a sister to me u would always make me laugh and smile , when ever u baby-sat u were like a nice friend not a mean baby sttter karen drew kevin anthony and kelli i'm sry she died and i'm sry it had to happen that way and kelli i will always be there for u and ur mom luv - KAYLA
Nov 11, 2005 12:53 PM

tricia miller   to_triciamiller@yahoo.com
london, england  
hi jenn-- i think of you often; your smile and energy are one of a kind. "you had a heart so big it could crush this town" are lyrics i always credit to you, and your spirit definately embodies this. when looking at this site, you can see how there was no way you could not light up a room with your smile, make someones day with a song, and make an impact on someones life, in crystal lake and everywhere else you have gone. to the bentons, your strength is more than admirable, its amazing and the love you have for each other was always felt from previous trials on. jenn, knowing you are putting on a show singing and dancing around in heaven makes me smile. x
Nov 07, 2005 05:46 AM

cori chandler   chens2001@yahoo.com
 
i've just been happy thinking about jennifer lately
Nov 02, 2005 03:07 PM

Ken Reinstein   ken@blue22pr.com
Scottsdale, AZ   http://www.blue22pr.com
Hi Jennifer and Friends... today is the 3rd anniversary of Jen's death and I wanted to say that I am thinking of her, her friends and her family. I remember the phone call I received while in Milwaukee that my friend and co-worker was dead, and it was one of the worst phone calls, if not the worst I ever got. I hope that this website has served to save the lives of many. Please keep up the great work. Jen, I know you're up doing good works in the Celestial Kingdom! Until we meet again... Your friend, Ken!
Jul 09, 2005 11:14 PM

Manny Garcia   amigodequeso@yahoo.com
Holland, MI (till Tuesday)  
Hi All, I too cannot believe it has been 3 years since Jen's passing. I think of Jennifer often and I always share her story when I can and when its appropriate. Aubrey and I just got back from the High Sierra Music Festival a few days ago and we all knew Jen was there. Unfortunately all of our Driving for Jennifer flyers got lost in the mail. They got returned back to Aubrey's address in Michigan and were waiting here when we got back. We had hundreds to pass out and to give to festival goers. However, High Sierra did write a little piece on Driving for Jennifer and about her loss in their festival guide. They also made a few announcements on the main stage also reminding folks to be safe and look out for others. It was nice to hear everyone reminding others to "drive safe" and talking about the accidents of the past and how to prevent them. I know we are still making a difference in other people's lives too. Thanks for everything Jennifer. We love you so much and miss you everyday. Thank you also to the Benton family for being so strong and such good people to us. Our thoughts and prayers are with you today and everyday. Love you always Jen. Manny Garcia
Jul 09, 2005 04:15 PM

Jessica Morrow   jessica.morrow@gmail.com
Flagstaff, AZ  
i cannot believe that it has been 3 years. jennifer will always remain in my heart & soul--i will always remember her loud loud laugh, the way she could make ANYTHING fun, her stunning beauty, her incredible kindness and friendship. i try hard to carry jen's kindness in my own heart and project it to other people as well. today I visited Jen's tree and said prayers for peace; I had a warm feeling inside that seemed to let me know she is okay where she is now. thinking of the Benton family today and always, Jess
Jul 09, 2005 03:39 PM

Marley Taris   hotblonde5456@yahoo.com
Phoenix AZ  
Hey kelli i never got to meet ur sister but i know how u feel. I lost a brother of mine in 2004. We never dreamed of loosing him but things like that happen! Well anyway sorry and i luv u! <3, marley 4-ever
Jul 04, 2005 01:19 PM

Uba Mugu   mugu@aol.com
New York  
You are always in my thoughts and prayers.Mugus cry go.
Jul 04, 2005 06:56 AM

Kelly Havel  
Malibu, Ca  
Jen was such a force of nature, it was incredible to be part of her beautiful life. I met her our freshman year of college and we became instant friends. Her beauty and lust for life was incredible. Everyone who met her knew she was an angel, but we didn't know we'd have to give her up so soon. Jen, you brought everyone together, even after death, and we'll never forget you. I love you forever!
Jun 29, 2005 06:58 PM

Jessica Tyler   jmtyler7@hotmail.com
Schaumburg, IL  
I have been thinking about Jennifer lately. I just moved to Schaumburg and when I was packing, I found a bunch of pictures and funny notes written in junior high and high school. Jennifer and I would pass notes back in forth and it's so funny to read of all the every day things we used to talk about. I think of her smile and her laugh and everyone loved being around her. We all miss you Jen! A big hello and love to the Benton family!
Jun 02, 2005 11:30 PM

Kati Taylor  
Phoenix  
Well I never met Jennifer but I know for sure she was an awesome person, daughter, friend and much more. From all the stories Karen have told me I wish I would have gotten to meet her so I could have experienced the joy she brought to everyones life that she knew. As I hang out with Kelley I just think of how great of a girl Kelley is and I know she owes alot of that to her sister amazing Jennifer who helped her grow up! When I am with Karen I realize how much she loved her daughter which reminds me that she was so great! I love the whole Benton Family and I wish them the best in the time still to come!
Jun 01, 2005 03:14 PM

Gabriel Gagnon  
Brighton,MI  
I often wonder why people like this end up in positions like these. I've been thru mystery drug overdoses buying pieces of unknown paper and didn't think of the unforseen results of another's careless actions or mine. My brother is a police officer here in Michigan and they are blue for a reason,like jennifer's. Stay strong and vigilant and always keep the faith. Love and Light, Gabe...
May 14, 2005 11:10 PM

Kerri Danek  
St. Charles Il  
To all of Jennifers family and friends Please pray for the Benton family once again, with Mothers Day approaching and other trials they have yet to face I know how hard this day is for Karen( Jens Mom and my best friend)that this day is harder than any other day of the year the pain of losing Jen is sometimes unbearable.Karen if you read this I love you may you find comfort in your faith, try to stay strong Jen is smiling down on you. Drew your the Best you know I love you too. Anthony you are your Mothers ROCK I know Jen is so proud of you. Kevin your the Best drummer I know even though I've never seen you play,its so wonderful you share the Love of Music just like Jen and you know she and Jesus are watching over you. Kelly you are so lucky God has given you so many gifts and Jen misses you as much as you miss her. May God Bless all of you and I will always keep you in my prayers I wish I was'nt so far away so I could hug all of you. Karen Happy Mothers Day Love me
May 07, 2005 08:44 PM

Love, Jennifer's Mom   drew@picturethis360.com
AZ  
The Broken Chain We little knew that morning that God Was going to call your name. In life we loved you dearly, In death we do the same. It broke our hearts to lose you, You did not go alone; For part of us went with you, The day God called you home. You left us peaceful memories, Your love is still our guide; And though we can not see you, You are always at our side. Our family chain is broken, And nothing seems the same; But as God calls us one by one, THE CHAIN will link again. Love you Always and Forever MISS YOU SOOOOOOOO MUCH!! Love Mom
May 07, 2005 08:10 PM

Kelli ( jennifer's little sister )   BillabongBabi21@hotmail.com
Phoenix, AZ  
Jenny I love u and miss u sooo very much and I know ur having fun in heaven BUT... I still cry for u and I still wish u could be here when I fight with Kevin so I can call u up and have u come over well I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOVE... ur baby sis, KELLI xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Apr 27, 2005 05:12 PM

Alison Hall   alihall96@yahoo.com
Crystal Lake, IL.  
I knew Jennifer way back in High School and there was never a dull moment to be had around her! I think it is wonderful what has been set up in her honor and for every festival-goer out there! My thoughts are with her family and all those who were able to experience her unique and memorable spirit! Be safe to all those who plan on traveling around to festivals this summer!
Feb 28, 2005 06:38 PM

Ann Kukulski   jstme63@aol.com
Crystal Lake, IL  
I have thoughts of Jennifer often, and decided to "pop in" and visit the guestbook. Just reading the poems from Jennifer and the stories from Karen are so sad and overwhelming. It is so unimaginable the pain that everyone still has. Kevin still stays in touch with Kelly via the internet so that is a good thing. Our neighborhood is so different now. Gone is the laughter, the friday happy hours, the trips with the kids, the blasting of the sterio, the BoDeans, Summerfest on and on an on. I hope all is well & hope that the kids will come visit you when they take a trip w/Don in June to Sedona, and Pheonix. Miss you all.
Feb 11, 2005 09:42 AM

Matt Zalansky  
Kansas City, MO  
Luke 23:42,43. Then he said, "Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom." And Jesus replied, "I assure you, today you will be with me in paradise." We love you and miss you Jenn.
Feb 03, 2005 11:01 AM

Mike Bhatti   maz777@cox.net
Phoenix, Az  
I was a good friend of Jennifer’s from high school. The time I got to spend with her is everlasting. I will always remember her smile and her positive outlook of life. One thing I can say about Jen is she Lived. I will always remember and cherish the times I had with her. She truly touched my life and I thank her for that. I was in New York when this tragedy happened and was unable to attend any of her memorial services. I would like to tell all her family and friends that Jen will always be in my thoughts and her impact in my life will never be forgotten. From the bottom of my heart, I am truly sorry for your loss. As I write these words a memory of Jen comes to mind. We were driving home from a night out and we had a tire blow out. We pulled over immediately and I asked her if she had a spare tire and a jack. When we went to the trunk to get the stuff out, there was a Frisbee laying there. We looked at each other, and instead of changing the tire right away, we opted to throw the Frisbee for a while. So there we were, with a broken car, and we were throwing the Frisbee in the middle of the street, sharing laughs and having fun. Thank you Jen, I will always remember you. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light. Matthew 11:29-30
Feb 01, 2005 09:37 PM

Colleen Hawthorn   chawthorn1@yahoo.com
Nashville, Tennessee  
Thanks for the information concerning auto accidents, as well as including campsites. Very cool. You guys are doing a great thing here.
Jan 31, 2005 09:28 PM

Christine Cetwinski   Mrscdc228@aol.com
Surprise, Az (formally of Crystal Lake, IL)  
Had this crazy dream last night, not quite sure what it meant. I was driving in my car in Chicago, and my passengers were, my deceased Grandfather, Jennifer, and my brother Lenny. It goes into detail but not much that would make sense. I just shook it off til I opened my email this morning and saw the email from Karen with Jennifer's poem, so I found Jen's website and thought I'd post. It's amazing how long it can be since we last seen those we adore but yet are still so close that we can dream as if they were still with us.. Thinking of all you Drew, Karen, Anthony, Kev, and Kelly.. Talk with you all soon...
Jan 29, 2005 12:58 PM

Karen Benton Jennifer's mom   drew@picturethis360.com
Phoenix Arizona  
Jennifer's Poems 3 of 3 The place is of beauty So subtle in dreams I close my eyes once They stay closed, it seems There are no more questions The answer is here For the place we’re in now Is a place without fear-
Jan 29, 2005 08:13 AM

Kaen Jennifer's mom   drew@picturethis360.com
Phoenix Arizona  
Jennifer's Poems 2-3 Sad, lost, so alone Why do you look like you can’t find your home You gaze my way A smirk appears Fake it was Just a friendly stare Taken by something I can not see I think you are just a reflection of me! Ignorance in the way we look at life We take, we kill, we feel no pain The damage we cause leaves no remains It could be simple, it could be nice I swear to you this, if you take my advice Turn you head now and change how you live If you do this for me, you will learn how to give!
Jan 29, 2005 08:11 AM

Karen Jennifer's mom   drew@picturethis360.com
Phoenix Arizona  
These are poems Jennifer wrote at N.A.U about 6 months before the accident 1 of 3 Rain, water, wind, and sea Is what I thought you meant to me Comfort within the sacred place I gave unto you with no disgrace My soul, my life, my love to be The realization was blind, for I did not see As the journey went on, the story must end My life must advance, to my very own end I thought for a time You were all I had known I would not turn around, I would never look back For the new adventure awaits My confidence I lack Happy, real, finally free I am depending on only me Welcome world, I am here to stay A beautiful woman, living her own way!
Jan 29, 2005 08:09 AM

Karen Jennifer's mom   drew@picturethis360.com
Phoenix Arizona  
Part 2 These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It Is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete. Remember, spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever. Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side. Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent. Remember, to say, "I love you" to your partner and your loved one but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you. Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again. Give time to love, give time to speak, and give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind. Take time to Pray for them and with them. AND ALWAYS REMEMBER: Life Is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away. If you don't send this to Family & Friends..., who cares? GOD bless you all Please pass the word about this web site,Remember Jennifer always wanted everyone to love everyone for who they are and to live every day to your fulliest!! Love ya Karen
Jan 29, 2005 08:02 AM


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